We've been getting a lot of questions lately for our resident Rude Girl, Dear Angry Black Grrl. She gives no-nonsense advice on all topics related to relationships.
If you need some questions answered and can handle some tough love, send your questions to michelle@happygrrls.com.
Here's the latest question.
Dear Angry Black Grrl
First things first, I am not bitter and I am NOT jealous of my best friend. Cool, now here’s my problem. I loooove my best friend to death but there’s one thing that she does that pisses me off. Every time that we go out, she brings her boyfriend along. Serious. Every. time!
We could be going for coffee, lunch, dinner, shopping, anything, and his dumbass is there. I do like him, but sometimes I want to spend quality time with my bestie. What do you suggest I do?
Signed, three’s a crowd
Dear three’s a crowd,
Girl, I hear ya! It’s cool for all of you to get along and do things together, but if every time I saw my best friend I had to see her boyfriend, someone was getting cussed out. Her dude is cool, but dayum, seeing him all the time gets annoying!
There ain’t no easy way to tell her, but you might have to come clean and say that you want a girls’ night out or that you want to chill with her without her man. Maybe your friend doesn’t even know that it bothers you. But if it were me, I would let her know pretty damn quick that I wasn't feelin' being the third wheel.
I’m not too sure what your friend will say, but at least you’re being honest. Either way, good luck!!
