Thursday, February 28, 2013

Ask Michelle



Having boyfriend/girlfriend issues? Boss getting on your damn nerve? Send your questions to michelle[at]happygrrls.com and I will try to include it in the next installment of Ask Michelle.


Dear Michelle
I’ve been having a little problem with one of my best friends. He recently started dating someone a while ago and apparently has fallen head over heels for her. So much so that I haven’t heard from him in months. Even when I text him he never texts back. I am feeling a little hurt now. He totally ditched me for his new girlfriend. And no, I don’t have any feelings for him, and no I’m not jealous! Am I wrong to feel totally dissed? 
Signed, abandoned friend 

Dear abandoned friend
That’s good that your friend is in a new exciting relationship. How long has he been dating this girl? The reason that I ask is that when a relationship is new, you want to spend every waking moment with that person. Think back to when you were first dating someone. Didn’t you breathe and sleep that person? I’m not saying that what your friend did is right, but just cut him some slack. Give him a few weeks and if he totally blows you off, call him out on it. Let him know that you are his friend and you are happy for him, but you miss the friendship and he needs to treat you like a friend. Hopefully you can work together to meet in the middle and spend some time together. 

Let me know how it goes.  

 

Michelle
* image taken from www.lovejays.com

Monday, February 18, 2013

Must-have app: Houzz

Y’all know I love my apps. Here’s my monthly pick for “must-have app.”

Ever get bored with the look of your bedroom, kitchen, family room or even your entire house? Need some help decorating but don’t know where to turn? Houzz is the app for you!

Houzz is an app that serves as a huge resource and source of inspiration for anyone looking to remodel, redecorate, or just wants to spruce up their place. There are a ton of photos to stir up your creativity and help you come up with ideas.

I like that there is a tag button which allows you to see the cost of an item, as well as where you can purchase it. If you are looking for help from a professional, there’s a tab where you can search for professionals in the field—general contractors, home stagers, architects designers etc. Cool, eh?

I stumbled upon this app because I love anything to do with interior design and home makeovers. Since I use this app a lot, I created an ideabook which allows me to save pictures that I like. This is a must-have app if you are thinking of redecorating your space, or if you are looking for some inspiration.

Michelle

Thursday, February 14, 2013

All I Want for Valentine’s Day Is......



some milk chocolate





  
                                           ...and some white chocolate!







Yummy! LOL! Happy Valentine's Day!!





Michelle

Monday, February 11, 2013

Carl Cassell- The Man behind Harlem & Harlem Underground restaurants


Carl Cassell's name has been on my "people I'd like to interview" list for the longest time. I’m a fan of his Caribbean/ Southern fusion restaurants – Harlem (67 Richmond Street East) and Harlem Underground (745 Queen Street West), but truthfully, I really wanted to meet the mastermind behind the place that serves up the yummiest southern fried chicken and waffles in Toronto.


I eagerly reached out to him in late December 2012 for a possible interview. Although he was gearing up for his holiday rush, he was extremely polite and courteous and told me that he was busy, but we should connect in the New Year.

As soon as the New Year rang in, I emailed him and asked to meet up. He said yes!


Harlem Underground
I entered Harlem Underground—a space that conjures up the cool, artsy movement of the Harlem Renaissance, and watched a few patrons chow down on their late afternoon lunch.  Jazzy, funk music was playing in the background while I waited for the infamous Carl Cassell.  As I waited, I perused the menu and pondered how professional I would look if I ordered the chicken and waffles I love sooo much, and ate it while I interviewed him. I sadly decided to not get anything.  I didn’t think licking my fingers and having chicken grease smeared on my lips would be a good look, so instead I opted for a cup of coffee :(



A few moments later Carl introduced himself to me, and we moved to a quieter spot in the restaurant, and began the interview.


I learned so much about Carl during our hour and a half meeting. First of all, I learned that he understandably lives and breathes food, secondly he has mad love for Toronto, and thirdly, he’s an easy going, down to earth, chill dude. But don't dismiss his chill demeanor as a weakness. He’s a savvy businessman who's doing what he loves.

Here’s a just a snippet of our amazing conversation that we had on that chilly Friday afternoon. 



When did you develop an interest in food?

Growing up in Jamaica, I always had an interest in food.  I enjoyed it. I spent a lot of time with my neighbour back home—Miss Kathleen.  She cooked at the local school. I used to hang out with her son...he was a good friend of mine...and I was at the house constantly.  She had an outdoor kitchen—that’s how I learned to cook the basics.  I learned how to cook rice properly, how to cook meat properly and how to fry chicken properly. That’s where my interest in food began.



When I came to Toronto, I worked in restaurant kitchens for 5 years.  I was a waiter and a bartender. Most of my roommates were chefs.  Living with chefs, one of the things you realize is that chefs don’t cook at home.  They instruct, but don’t cook.  It enabled me to learn a lot about food.



Why did you and Carl Allen (former business partner) decide to close the Irie Food Joint and rebrand it as Harlem Underground?

Irie Food Joint opened in 2001 and had been around for about 9 years. Harlem opened in December 2006. It was doing very well...extremely well.  One of the issues I’d constantly face would be running two different menus.  Running two different menus created problems in terms of staffing....my kitchen staff...I couldn’t transfer my staff from one restaurant to the next because it was two completely different menus. Running one that dealt with Southern cuisine (Harlem) and the other dealt with Caribbean cuisine (Irie Food Joint). 



Having Irie and Harlem made sense in covering the Diaspora, but from an economic standpoint, it didn’t make sense to run 2 separate menus. It was difficult to retain new staff.  Caribbean cuisine is very specific, not everyone can cook it.  Every couple of years I found myself back in the kitchen retraining people.



Harlem and Harlem Underground share the same menu.  Why different names for the restaurants?

To create a distinction between both restaurants.  The distinction is the vibe.  Queen Street is its own animal.  Anything on Queen Street falls within that Queen Street vibe.  Harlem Underground tends to skew a younger, hipper crew, and at Harlem we get a slightly older crowd.



Your fried chicken has been called one of the best in Toronto. What was the process like perfecting it?

It was a collaborative effort between Tony (former chef Anthony Mair) and I.  We had a similar approach to food because we are both Jamaican. 



I read that you wanted the restaurant to be a place for creative types. What do you do to facilitate this?

Carl painted the picture on the wall and created the Red Stripe sculpture
I think it’s the vibe. I’ve primarily been around artists my entire life.  I’m an artist as well.  I paint and sculpt; I do a lot of things.



What would you like to accomplish with your restaurants?

I want to give my community a place that they can call their own for as long as I can possibly do it.  So people can talk about it like they talk about the Underground Railroad restaurant being the first of it’s kind (pssst...the Underground Railroad restaurant was one of the first soul food restaurants in Toronto).  We’re following in that footsteps.



Have any celebs visited the restaurant?

There have been a lot that have passed through- Ahmir "Questlove" Thompson, Beenie Man, Wyclef, and Giancarlo Esposito among others. 



Do you watch the Food network ?

No, not really.  I used to follow Anthony Bourdain’s TV series. I met him a few years ago.  He’s a really cool cat.



Well guess what, Carl? You’re a cool cat too! It was such a pleasure talking to him—not just about restaurants, but everything under the sun.   I love that he is dedicating himself in providing a funky, down home vibe with his restaurants and educating patrons on the flavours of the Caribbean and the South.  Thank you, Carl.



When you're in Toronto, or just looking for a delish meal, go to....



Harlem Underground Restaurant

745 Queen St. West
Toronto ON M6J 1G1
416.366.4743
info@harlemrestaurant.com
www.twitter.com/harlem1920

 
Harlem Restaurant

67 Richmond Street East
Toronto ON M5C 1N9
416.368.1920
info@harlemrestaurant.com
www.twitter.com/harlem1920



Michelle